Wednesday, August 7, 2013

What I (Bridgette) Love About My Service



Being a Peace Corps Volunteer can be very trying. Living in a developing country has its challenges. I think it is important to remember the things that make you love your service. Here, I’ve created a list of 30 things I love about my service in Botswana. 


1.       The Okavango Delta. We live in an amazing place. The Okavango Delta is one of the most pristine inland deltas in the world. It is home to abundant wildlife and unique cultures.

2.       Elephants. These are my favorite animals. It is incredible to see them in person. They are intelligent and majestic animals.


3.       Learning Setswana and Simbukushu. These languages are nothing like English, nor anything like each other. Very difficult to learn, but once you have a few phrases, people will open up to you in a way they don’t for passing tourists.

4.       Hippos grunting at night. We live right next to a floodplain where two very vocal hippos reside. It is so much fun to hear them “talking” once the sun starts setting. Sometimes we hear them splashing around at night and if we are very lucky we can see them!

5.       The sun and moon rising over the Okavango River. This is something I will never get tired of. The huge red African sun rising over papyrus in the morning is spectacular. Equally beautiful is the full moon rising over the river as a variety of birds sing and flit about.


6.       Baskets. The baskets in our region are said to be the most beautiful in the whole African continent. I have a serious obsession with the amazing baskets found here.
7.       The birdlife. We’ve identified over 125 birds since arriving in Botswana! Our favorites are the kingfishers and bee-eaters. The bird diversity is amazing. The Okavango Delta is home to over 400 bird species!

8.       Tea time. This is one of the best parts of the British influence in Botswana. I have become obsessed with tea. It’s so lovely to drink tea, eat rusks and relax in the mid-morning.

9.       Traditional foraging. This is something I learned last year. There are so many fruits and other plants that you can eat in Botswana. It’s a lot of fun!

10.   Kids who are eager to learn. The school system here doesn’t really challenge kids. It’s fun to work with them and inspire them to critically think. They are eager for something other than Rote memorization.

11.   My fellow PCVs. Our group is pretty amazing. We each have something unique to offer to this experience. I’ve enjoyed making friends from all over the US. Each PCV has a strong desire to serve others – you can’t ask for a better group of people!

12.   Seswa, pap and madombi. These are the best traditional foods, in my opinion. Seswa is like shredded beef, pap is a maize meal that is plain but so nice to eat with a good dish and madombi are huge dumplings.

13.   Working with female farmers in Samochima. This is the best project at Pabalelo Trust. We are working with 40 women to improve agricultural practices. These women are some of the strongest people I’ve ever met. They are the sole caregivers of their children, provide all of the food for their families and work incredibly hard. They are an inspiration!


14.   People who are quick to laugh. Batswana love to laugh. This is one of my absolute favorite things about the people here.

15.   Kids. The kids here are so imaginative. They can create toys or games out of anything. It reminds me that kids don't need a lot to be happy. The kids are also very curious. Sometimes when I’m at the grocery store, kids will walk by me just to lightly touch my arm or hair. 


16.   My projects at Pabalelo Trust. I truly believe in the mission of Pabalelo Trust. The organic gardening work is right up my alley, conservation agriculture will have a huge impact on food security in the region and I get to create an environmental education program. Who could ask for more?

17.   Koisan languages. These are some of the oldest languages from the oldest tribes in the world. They are incredibly difficult to learn since they have lots of clicks. It’s so fun to hear people speaking these unique languages.

18.   Hitch-hiking. I’m sure this one makes my family back home nervous, but it’s totally okay! I love hitching around Botswana. It’s not as reliable as buses (we just waited 3 hours for a ride this weekend), but is so much faster. Plus, you meet some really interesting people.

19.   The rainy season. Botswana is dry. Like really dry. Most of the country is covered by the Kahlahari Desert and everything is brown and crunchy most of the year. I’ve never loved rain as much as I do here. So many people rely on the rains for their crops, so I think it’s good that we have this experience of craving rain. When the rains come, it’s amazing. Everything turns lush and instantly everyone feels more optimistic.

20.   Seasonal fruits. I love the fact that I can only get mangoes or monkey fruit during their season. This makes us appreciate these fruits so much more (and gorge ourselves on them when they are here!). I think it’s important for all of us from areas of continuous abundance to learn to appreciate food.

21.   Spending so much time with Matt. My husband is my best friend. I am so happy we can spend so much time together and share this amazing experience.

I mean, who doesn't want to hang out with this guy?

22.   Reading. I have plenty of time to read here. Things move at a snail’s pace, so I bring a book everywhere. My Kindle has sped up my reading since I have a book at my fingertips once I finish another book. So far, I’ve read about 35 books and look forward to reading more. I’m an omnivore when it comes to reading, so I read all sorts of books. My favorites so far have been “Contact,” “The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle,” “The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-time Indian,” and “Lolita.”

23.   The night sky. The population of Botswana and Namibia is incredibly small. This means there is very little light pollution at night. This makes for an awesome sky. I love to spend time during the new moon just staring at the sky.

24.   Millipedes and other bugs! I love bugs, always have. I love seeing species that are new to me. My favorites are millipedes, gold tortoise beetles and wall crab spiders.


25.   Women carrying things on their heads. Women are amazing. I love to see the strength of Batswana women as they carry huge buckets of water from the river. They carry everything on their heads like pencil cases, packets of meat, watermelons, 6 ft long bundles of reeds and oil bottles. It’s pretty amazing. 

26.   Old women dancing. Whenever there is some sort of traditional dancing event, the old women join in with the biggest smiles. It’s pretty amazing and so joyful!

27.   Baby carrying and breast feeding mothers. When we took care of our niece, we carried her in all sorts of baby carriers. It was so nice to have a child that close to you. Here, baby carrying is the norm. Women use one or two pieces of fabric to secure their babies on their backs. They do this while also carrying lots of stuff on their heads. Impressive! Breastfeeding is also the norm here. It is not unusual to see women pulling out their breasts to feed their hungry children anywhere. Hopefully the US will be this comfortable with breastfeeding soon!

28.   Teaching kids in the US about Botswana. I have connected with two 6th grade classes, a Girl Scout troop and a kindergarten class. I answer questions about Botswana – they are interested in how people live, the food we eat, and (of course) the animals. I think our biggest impact as PCVs is broadening the world view of our family and friends back home. Not everyone can travel to a developing country, so we can help them understand what it’s like in other places. Having a global view of our place here on Earth is incredibly important. The more we understand that people are the same everywhere, the more likely we are to treat everyone with kindness and love.

29.   Living in Africa is pretty awesome! We are doing something that’s pretty cool. We will live in Africa for 2 years! Most Americans can’t do this, so we are incredibly lucky. We get to experience the lives of others, the challenges that families around the world face, and see amazing things.

30. Serving others. This is the main reason we chose to serve in the Peace Corps. We were inspired by the projects of returned PCVs and wanted to use our skills to help others. Matt is building computer skills of his clinic staff. I’m working with volunteers to decrease the taboo around periods and help women and girls manage their cycles. Matt is working with PCVs in Northern Botswana to decrease malaria. We are both increasing food security with our work at Pabalelo Trust. We have frank discussions with people about reproductive health and healthy relationships. There is no way to measure the results of the work we do, but I truly hope we have a positive impact on the communities we serve.

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Vacation in Tuli



The Tuli Block is a track of privately owned land in the eastern part of Botswana. Most of the land is used for eco-tourism, hunting and cattle and produce farming. Matt visited the area when he shadowed a fellow PCV last year. He really enjoyed it and I couldn’t wait to see a different part of the country. We decided to splurge and stay two nights at a private camp. The camp is located on an island in the middle of the Limpopo River. Our stay included all of our meals, two game drives each day, and a lovely and quite place to enjoy the bush. One of the best parts of the camp were the on-demand hot water and outdoor shower and bath. We felt very luxurious! We really loved the landscape and the animal sounds at night. We hadn’t heard hyena sounds since we arrived in Botswana, and it was a real treat to listen to them and the jackals. Because we were the only ones at the camp, we got private game drives. Although it was pricey on a PC budget, it was worth the expense! Below are some pictures from our Tuli Vacation.

The landscape in Tuli

Blue Wildebeest

Bedrock! The landscape is so different in Tuli.

Zebras

The suspension bridge to our private island. Look! There's a Bridge on a bridge!

Our sunrise view from our tent.

Waterbuck at sunrise

Rock hyrax - they are pretty darn cute!

Klipspringer

Kori Bustard

Our porch for the weekend

We had fires here and listened to the animal noises at night.

The dining area

Lots of bones from local animals and some old arrow heads.

The Limpopo River

Giraffe

Elephant!

These were beautiful flowers at the Mathathane hitch-hiking spot.

Our Many Names



Back home we have very few names. We have our given names, Bridgette and Matthew, and our nicknames, Bridge and Matt. Not too complicated. Here, we have lots of names. Below we have listed our many names in Botswana. We’ll start with Matt’s names since my names are often based on his.

Matt’s Names
Mpho (Setswana for gift)
Posta (nickname for Mpho)
Rra (like Sir)
Lekgoa (this means white person and is mostly used by kids)
Papa
Ntate (father in Setswana)
Mateo (Setswana for Matthew)
Sir
Matthews
Matthew
Matt
Boss (not sure where this comes from, but it makes us uncomfortable) 

Bridgette’s Names
Mma (like Ma’am)
Mama
Mmame (I think this is how you would spell it, sounds like mommy)
Mme
MmaMpho (wife of Mpho aka Matt)
MmaPosta
MmaMatthews
MmaKogle
Dimpho
Lekgoa
Madame
Bridgette


Sunday, June 16, 2013

The Chicken Incident



This is a disgusting, but funny story. If you are grossed out by dead animals do not read this.

Mma gwe T's chicken farm.
This is the long story of how Bridge got salmonella. It is a bit late but it’s worth sharing. From April to June 2012, we were Peace Corps Trainees. As trainees, we stayed with a host family who taught us Batswana culture, language, livelihoods, etc. For the majority of training our host mother was the only person in the house. Our host father is police officer who works and lives at a border post, so we only met him twice. Our host brother, Tebogo, was our age but he lived in Gaborone, so we didn’t see him often either. Our host mom, Mma gwe T (meaning Mom of Tebogo) or Mama Podiso was very funny and friendly. We got along great and enjoyed each others’ company. Mma gwe T was a stay at home wife and part-time chicken farmer. We once visited her farm. The farm was fine, but a little too stinky for Bridge.

After a very long day of training, we came home to a house full of dead chickens. Mma gwe T had slaughtered 100 of her chickens and they were bagged up and ready to sell. However, she overloaded her chest freezers and they all were at room temperature for a full 24 hours. Her son, Tebogo, was supposed come help her re-bag the chickens and clean the freezers. Tebogo didn’t come, Bridge was about to vomit (it’s important to note that Bridgette has become very sensitive to smells since arriving in Botswana), so Matt volunteered (or was coerced) to do it. The chicken process was as follows:

·         Clean out the blood in the freezer with dirty old rag
·         Take room-temperature chicken out of bag
·         Wash chicken in two basins (1st and 2nd rinse)
·         Drain out blood in plastic bag
·         Place chicken back in bag
·         Put the bagged chickens back in the freezer or in the back of a pickup truck

Bridge was busy preparing dinner when Mma gwe T came in with her dirty rag (the one mentioned above) and cleaned up around her. I (Bridge) looked at the counters in disgust and said, oh my goodness I am going to get salmonella from this whole operation.  Our biggest concern though was Matt getting sick. He was the one on the floor with dead chickens and bowls full of chicken blood. 

When Matt and Mma gwe T were done with the chicken project, we made sure Matt got really cleaned up, we washed his clothes, he took a bath, he scrubbed his hands, etc. Unfortunately we did not take the same precautions for me. I got sick, really sick for like ten days. Even though salmonella sucks big time, we still look back at the chicken incident and crack up.